You both knew when the first payday would be when he signed on, this should have been planned for. If you fear your boyfriend won't send money to help with your son, you should file for child support, the military takes the support of dependents very seriously and frowns upon those who do not do so.

In the meantime, you can certainly apply for WIC, food stamps, and daycare subsidies for your son though your county human services.

When he went to MEPS for processing he was suppose to have taken care of this but its been a month now and there's still no money. Was I suppose to put him on childsupport to get it? I just don't get it.

If your boy friend acknowleges the child you can apply for dependence expense. Talk to your guy if he is not willing talk to the commanding offficer. Be sure if the father is unwilling to pay support you will be asked to supply DNA proof of parentage. Did he put his name on the birth certificate? if not then DNA is the only way to go.